CHRISTINA DITCHKOFSKY

Burnt Letters: Unveiling the Shadows of Trauma and Finding Strength in the Depths of Despair.


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You don’t fall in love with a monster. You fall for someone who sees your brokenness—and then uses it to destroy you.


In Burnt Letters, Christina Ditchkofsky shares a deeply personal and courageous account of surviving childhood abuse, toxic love, and the long journey to self-worth. After escaping one abusive relationship only to enter another, Christina found herself spiraling—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. The breaking point? A gun to her head… and the crushing belief that she was the problem....more


Have you ever kept quiet to stay safe?

Statistics:

  • Latest statistics reports that 41% of women and 26% of men have experienced some form of sexual or physical violence, or  have been stalked.
  • A staggering 61 million women and 53 million men have experienced psychological aggression by an intimate partner in their lifetime. [CDC]


What early readers are saying...

I was part of the launch team and just finished reading this brave , vulnerable and heartbreaking book. If you’ve ever been in an abusive or narcissistic relationship, you will feel seen and you’ll be able to relate to the stories being shared here. It keeps you on the edge of your seat and has you rooting for Chrissy, and feeling all the emotions, as you take this journey with her. I read it in one sitting , couldn’t put it down. Recommended reading for anyone who is in this situation or knows someone who is . Insightful , raw , honest, and hopeful.

Wendy, A., Pennsylvania, Goodreads

Burnt Letters is a heartfelt look at one woman's struggle and journey with abusive relationships and the toxicity that comes with them. It is a poignant journey that will make you pause and think about your own relationships, past and present. It is a must-read for anyone who feels alone and knows why it's not easy to "just walk away." Survivors of abusive relationships will nod their heads in understanding at the journey. This book is not for the faint of heart, as it touches on subtopics and red flags with pinpoint precision. Highly recommend this book for anyone who has suffered through, is currently in, or knows someone who is struggling with abusive and toxic relationships.

Beth R., Editor, New Mexico

This book was a powerful read—captivating, inspiring, and emotionally gripping. It pulled me in from the very first page and kept me on the edge of my seat, always wanting more. A beautifully written journey of strength, truth, and transformation.

Cindy Lou S., West Virginia

Every man needs to read this book—especially the ones who think they already understand...—I didn’t expect it to hit me the way it did. I'm a man who watched someone I care deeply about go through something like this. And until now, I never really had the words… or the full picture of what she was surviving behind closed doors.
This book isn’t just about abuse. It’s about silence. About the small, daily ways someone can be broken down while still appearing “fine.”
Christina writes with such brutal honesty that I had to stop more than once just to sit with it. Her story opened my eyes to how insidious emotional abuse can be...What struck me most was how familiar it felt—how easy it is to miss the signs as a bystander, a friend, even a partner.

If you’ve ever loved someone who lost themselves in a toxic relationship—buy this book. Share it. Talk about it.”

D. S., U.S.A., Goodreads

“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”

— Robert Holden

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